Tomboy by Liz Prince | Graphic Memoir Review

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Growing up, Liz Prince wasn't a girly girl, dressing in pink tutus or playing Pretty Pretty princess like the other girls in her neighborhood. But she wasn't exactly one of the guys either, as she quickly learned when her Little League baseball coach exiled her to the outfield instead of letting her take the pitcher's mound. Liz was somewhere in the middle, and Tomboy is the story of her struggle to find the place where she belonged.  Tomboy is a graphic novel about refusing gender boundaries, yet unwittingly embracing gender stereotypes at the same time, and realizing later in life that you can be just as much of a girl in jeans and a T-shirt as you can in a pink tutu. A memoir told anecdotally, Tomboy follows author and zine artist Liz Prince through her early childhood into adulthood and explores her ever-evolving struggles and wishes regarding what it means to "be a girl."  From staunchly refuting anything she perceived as being "girly" to the point of misogyny, to discovering through the punk community that your identity is whatever you make of it, regardless of your gender, Tomboy is as much humorous and honest as it is at points uncomfortable and heartbreaking.

WHY DID I READ THIS BOOK?

I read Tomboy: A Graphic Memoir by Liz Prince because I am such a huge fan of graphic novel memoirs. I used to really be into reading memoirs, but don’t seem to have the time for them anymore, and so graphic novels are a nice way to be able to fit them in. Furthermore, I like it when books deal with things like gender constructs and society’s expectations of people. So, the subject matter of Prince’s memoir seemed really interesting. It sounded like a smart and thoughtful graphic memoir.

WHAT’S THE STORY HERE?

Tomboy opens up with a four year old Liz Prince throwing a temper tantrum over having to wear a dress. Much of the book continues on with Liz growing up hating dresses, enjoying toys meant for boys, and having trouble fitting in at school with the other girls. I do have to admit, I love Liz’s love of the Ghostbusters cartoon. The story talks about how Liz finds that she’s a tomboy. She likes things that are deemed masculine by our society. She feels a lot of hatred for feminine things.

Unfortunately, this means that Liz gets made fun of a lot by her peers and has trouble finding a boyfriend, which is one of her goals in the book, it seems. Yet, through trying different schools and eventually volunteering for a community center sorting zines, Liz finds her place. So, I feel like this is a book about acceptance — about being confident in yourself, about eschewing society’s gender constructs, and about simply being yourself.

WHAT DID I ULTIMATELY THINK OF TOMBOY?

Liz Prince’s memoir really made me think. At first, I was like, ugh, what is the big deal about wearing dresses, it’s not that bad. For real, I thought the book went on and on about that overmuch. But then it’s like this switch went off in my head and I realized, she’s got a point. I began to realize that as Liz was growing up, like 5 years before me, she didn’t have a whole lot of strong female role models in the media or in commercials. Society had dictated females look and act a certain way. And so, Prince rebelled against that because she states in the book that she’s strong willed. I have to say, that some of it I could relate to.

Like, when she’s talking about Disney and how the princesses all have to be saved and how that didn’t appeal to her, and how Princess Leia needing to be saved also didn’t appeal. I totally get that. As I was reading, I was thinking about when I was a kid and how I would get up at 7:30 a.m. to watch Sailor Moon on Fox Kids 40 because it was subconsciously the only show on TV geared at girls my age featuring females who don’t need saving but who have power and are the heroes, of course I also liked it because the Sailor Scouts were also allowed to be feminine (I have zero dress hang ups, obviously).

I guess Tomboy just really made me reflect back on the gender socialization in my life. I could honestly see this book being used in a gender studies class, and to be honest I wish that I was still in contact with my gender studies professor so that I could send this book to her.

HOW’S THE ART?

So, at first I didn’t love the art because it’s not super detailed. See, there’s a lot of at firsts when it comes to this book. But, you know, I kept reading and I began thinking that the art is perfectly suited for this book. Tomboy is a book about someone who is not ostentatious. It’s about someone who doesn’t seem to care for all these adornments. And so, the art within is unadorned. It’s art that looks deceptively simple (but is totally not) and well, I thought that was a good thing because it allows for greater focus on the story and beyond that, the meat and meaning beneath the surface story — about our gender roles and how it’s affected growing up.

SUM IT UP WITH A GIF:

She talks a lot about boys and crushes and so, I thought of Becky from Little Giants and her crush.

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